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A New York Tate of Mind
A New York Tate of Mind
In which this reader and explorer reviews books, muses on literary (and other) matters, and shares some of her adventures.

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My 1-5 rating system:
1 = I did not like it and would not recommend it.
2= It was fine. Read it if the subject matter interests you.
3 = I enjoyed it and would recommend it.
4 = I really liked it, and think you should read it!
5 = One of the best books I've read.
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Review: London Falling
4/5 stars London Falling: A Mysterious Death in a Gilded City and a Family's Search for Truth, by Patrick Radden Keefe (2026) Keefe is so good at making non-fiction digestible and compelling. I previously read and really enjoyed Say Nothing and, about a month ago, Rogues: True Stories of Grifters, Killers, Rebels and Crooks. London Falling is Keefe's most recent book, and chronicles the mysterious death of a young man in London. You know I love a true crime story, so I was so
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May 192 min read


Review: The House of My Mother
3/5 stars The House of My Mother: A Daughter's Quest for Freedom, by Shari Franke (2025) TW: Child abuse (physical, emotional & psychological), sexual assault (adult/minor relationship), toxic relationships, religious trauma, cult-like authoritarianism. If you don't know, Shari Franke is the eldest daughter of Ruby Franke, former mommy-vlogger turned cult-like Mormon child abuser. Ruby ran a popular YouTube channel called "8 Passengers," referring to herself, her husband Kevi
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May 122 min read


Review: Yes, Please and Bossypants
5/5 stars - Yes, Please, by Amy Poehler (2014) - re-read 3/5 stars - Bossypants, by Tina Fey (2011) I read Yes, Please in 2017, and really loved it. This year, after I read Bossypants, I thought it might be interesting to re-read Amy Poehler's book and compare/contrast. And it was; It was interesting! All in all, Yes, Please was better (for me). Poehler's personality is a bit more fun, a bit more eager-to-please, and her approach to memoir is vulnerable and revealing. Fey's p
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May 44 min read


Review: Rogues
3/5 stars Rogues: True Stories of Grifters, Killers, Rebels and Crooks, by Patrick Radden Keefe (2022) I read Keefe's Say Nothing: A True Story of Murder & Memory in Northern Ireland in 2020 for my book club, and really enjoyed his long-form journalism. Coming from someone who, at the time anyway, had read very little non-fiction, Keefe combines insightful and well-researched story-telling with a writing style that is compelling and narrative. In Rogues, Keefe has curated 12
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Apr 172 min read


Review: Killers of the Flower Moon
3/5 Killers of the Flower Moon: The Osage Murder & the Birth of the FBI , by David Grann (2017) TW: Hate crimes, systemic racism and dehumanization, violence/murder, alcoholism, forced institutionalization, forced removal This is just one of many, many stories about the ways in which the U.S. government screwed over Native populations. One of many stories the history books gloss over. It's definitely depressing, but, in my view, incredibly important to learn about. The Osage
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Mar 102 min read


Review: Field Guide for Accidents
5/5 stars Field Guide for Accidents , by Albert Abonado (2024) This is Al's second collection of poetry (his first being Jaw , published in 2020), and it is truly something to savor. Abonado writes with scrutiny about his Filipino identity, his immigrant parents, and the challenges of growing up with a (non-white) dual-identity in America. America, which, "at the airport asks for the name of my tribe, compliments me for the Vietnam in the poems another man read. An honest mi
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Dec 24, 20252 min read


Review: World of Wonders
5/5 stars World of Wonders: In Praise of Fireflies, Whale Sharks, and Other Astonishments , by Aimee Nezhukumatathil (2020), Illustrator: Fumi Nakamura This is a beautiful debut of nonfiction essays about nature, how the author relates to the world around her, and how and what animals and plants can teach us. The essays include very cool facts about animals and plants, side by side with anecdotes about the author's past - where she grew up, the many different places she live
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Nov 26, 20251 min read


Review: Make It Scream, Make It Burn
4/5 stars Make It Scream, Make It Burn , by Leslie Jamison (2019) One of my favorite nonfiction books is Leslie Jamison's The Empathy...
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Aug 11, 20253 min read


Review: Falling Back in Love with Being Human
5/5 stars Falling Back in Love with Being Human: Letters to Lost Souls , by Kai Cheng Thom (2023) "from the depths of my rage and...
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Nov 15, 20243 min read


Review: The Book of Delights
4/5 stars The Book of Delights, by Ross Gay (2019) It IS a delight, this book! Ross Gay's essays remind us to look around each day and...
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Jul 13, 20242 min read


Review: The Secret Rooms
1/5 stars The Secret Rooms: A True Story of a Haunted Castle, a Plotting Duchess, & a Family Secret, by Catherine Bailey (2012) False...
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Nov 13, 20232 min read


Review: Butts, A Backstory
3/5 stars Butts: A Backstory, by Heather Radke (2022) Not my words but an apt, brief description - this book melds "history, personal...
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Sep 26, 20233 min read


A Callery Pear Tree's Saplings
9/11/23 - 22 years later (Each section below has 100 words. This is part of a practice I've been trying to maintain of writing 100 words...
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Sep 11, 20234 min read


Review: Let Me Go
3/5 stars Let Me Go, by Helga Schneider (2001) TW: Anti-Semitism, and graphic descriptions of Holocaust camps, including medical...
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Aug 15, 20233 min read


Review: Barracoon
5/5 stars Barracoon: The Story of the Last "Black Cargo," by Zora Neale Hurston (2018) Barracoon tells the story of Olualo Kossula, also...
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Jul 24, 20233 min read


Review: So Much More Than a Headache
3/5 stars So Much More Than a Headache, edited by Kathleen O'Shea (2020) I Describe a Migraine I wanted to describe chronic migraines as...
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Apr 21, 20233 min read


Review: Between You & Me
2/5 stars Between You & Me: Confessions of a Comma Queen, by Mary Norris (2015) There were parts of this book that were quite...
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Jun 25, 20222 min read


Are We There Yet... I made a book!
For the past year I've been working with a designer and 19 artistic friends to create a book: Are We There Yet? An Illustrated Journey of...
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Jun 23, 20221 min read


Review: Shrill
5/5 stars Shrill: Notes from a Loud Woman, by Lindy West (2016) "Women matter. Women are half of us. When you raise every woman to...
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May 10, 20223 min read


Review: Under the Banner of Heaven
3/5 stars Under the Banner of Heaven: A Story of Violent Faith, by Jon Krakauer (2003) I recently visited Salt Lake City (SLC), Utah for...
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May 2, 20223 min read

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